道德感 Morality

今天和張李、培翰去吃個簡單的晚餐，



本來以為你們有什麼問題，我可以幫忙的還有給些建議的，



沒想到，相形之下，我受惠得更多，



最近失去的動力也逐漸找回。



感覺上，我真是個小心眼的人，



即使碰到不滿意的，也會當場憋著不說；



注重感受，反而讓自己陷入管那麼多的窘境。



因為隨性、熟悉或是放輕鬆，



所以反而變得差不多、別在意甚至理所當然。



有時，注重小小的細節會讓人覺得尊重，



因為你在互動之中，應該被重視的是人，



而不是你吃了什麼、去了哪裡，



不然，獨處可能是最好的聚會選擇。



After having a simple dinner with Lichen and Payhen,

in contrast, I found myself harvesting more than giving suggestions to both of you.

And I also got my power and motivation back.

Actually, I may be the one caring so much

that when I bump into something unsatisfying,

I prefer to be silent and complain after the event.

However, I usually trap  myself into the predication

because of caring about many details, especially the feeling.

In my thought, focus on some details could be a behavior of respect.

Casualty, acquaintance and over-relaxing will make us accpet something alomostly and taking-for-granted.

Respect comes from what you put premiun on but not what you eat nor where you go.

Or being-alone would be the best choice of a reuinon meeting.